Your Privacy, Your Control

Access & Control

Your submission belongs to you. Use your unique IDs to view, manage consent, or delete your letter — anytime.

Unlock Your Submission

Enter both IDs to access your letter

Found on your confirmation page or Mailbox URL

Only shown once after submission — keep it safe

Your Private ID is never stored — only a one-way hash for verification.

My Vault

Locally saved IDs for quick access

Stored only on this device. Never sent to servers.

No saved submissions

Your IDs will be saved here automatically when you submit a letter.

What You Can Do

Complete control over your submission

View Status

Check moderation progress, see AI analysis results, and track your submission.

Manage Consent

Withdraw research or marketing consent before publication. Your choice, always.

Delete Anytime

Remove your submission completely — pending or published. No questions asked. In rare cases, content under a legal hold must be retained until the hold is released.

Privacy by Design

Your Private ID is never stored on our servers — only a one-way hash for verification. This means:

  • No one at Dear Nobody — not admins, not moderators — can see your Private ID
  • We cannot verify your identity to modify your submission on your behalf
  • Only you can access or delete your content using your Private ID

Your words, your control. Always.

Lost Your IDs?

Unfortunately, we cannot recover your Private ID — that's by design for your privacy. If you've lost it, there's no way to access or modify your submission.